We spend too much time running around like headless chickens, that we lose time to focus on the priorities. Analyze, evaluate, Act-figure out the difference between the urgent vs the important, the now versus the later, the today versus the tomorrow, the day to day nitty gritty stuff versus the strategic, big picture stuff.
Trade-offs are necessary at every facet of life-at every juncture, we will be faced with two forks in the road; which path will you take-the more trodden, popular and easy one or the one least trodden, unpopular, seemingly unknown and scary one ?
If you do what everyone else does, you will get what everyone else does and you will be average. There is nothing wrong with average, if you want average. It’s what you want that matters not what I want or what your family/friends want or your ecosystem wants/desires.
If you want to be different, you have to do different-if you want more, you have to first deserve more; would you have bet on yourself, when you were in high school with all the other kids; if you could at that time, get 10% of everything( not just money& wealth, but happiness, joy, contentment, health, friends, love and quality relationships) of one kid that you choose, for the rest of that kids life and yours, who would you have picked? Would you have picked yourself? Fast forward, 30 years to today-who would you pick now? Would the 2 choices be different? Do you think differently, do differently and act differently, now versus before: today versus yesterday-and how about tomorrow?
It’s your choice-make the choice and then Just Do It! Don’t miss the forest for the trees; sometimes you have to lose the battle to win the war-Don’t sweat the small stuff…..or should u focus on the small stuff to make the Big Difference?
The difficult and seemingly paradoxical choices we make when we live in this technologically advanced, modern and seemingly equitable society of ours! Do you want Vitamin M( Aka money, riches) or are you after Vitamin H( aka happiness, Nirvana, state of bliss)-the two need not be mutually exclusive-Learn how to get your cake and eat it too….stay tuned for some exciting news to come….it’s not too late, u can still make the change and be happy.